social security!!
we men live to earn! however small or big bucks. Least bothered to spend on ourselves but for the dear ones. Everyone has one and sometime quite a few. Not being bothered what happens next when this "granted" sponsor is not there anymore? But when they do, there comes the terrible sense of insecurity and the cruelty of the society portrays it s abstract painting on the mind of the insecure.
Nonetheless to say, feminine sect feel it rather frequently. whether it is in childhood-insecure since the elder brother is powerful or he gets all the attention. Feeling like , my parent's all care is about the elder or younger brother's toy, performance, school etc. The next stage is teenage. Being insecure about loosing boyfriends, getting dumped more often than not. And the new trend of being Devil's may care, MOVE ON. Got over it/him/her/shit. Being in relationship is considered as taking the responsibility but the effect is negative. Now a day being in relationship means all you care about yourself. Holding some one being responsible for what ever that has happens. Its like catching a scapegoat. So what I conclude being in relationship is that does not indicates that you are acting like a matured individual ready to handle responsibilities. It teaches you how not to be a sensible person. "what-ever"
Third level , being the next stage! Relationship-to- Marriage. Few years would be fine. Made for each other, soul-mates and all other sorts of craps. With, time the so called "love" evaporates, leaving the salted scales of minerals-which is scientifically not "sweet" memories..........................to be continued